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Marriage for homosexual couples?
With amazement I have been reading about the turmoil that is caused because some homosexual couples were granted the permission to marriage.
I'm talking about Amerika, not my country.
Some time ago it was allowed here and after a few days of utter joy, because woman-woman and man-man couples were allowed the same rights as woman-man and man-woman relationships, we found our rest again.
Most people experienced that it had absolutely nothing to do with their lifes and they just lived on.
But in Amerika.... something utterly strange happens.
In the land of freedom and human rights, or this is at least how they want to present themselves in the international community, in this country where they say discrimination against race and religion is not allowed, there are all sorts of people who want to interfere with the right of two people who want to be happy.
Even the president stamps with his feet upon anti-discrimination laws, because his faith tells him there are different levels of people.
ARE THERE?????
Saw the other day on TV a mother who expressed her fear about being send back to Soedan.
She was very worried about what might happen to her little girls.
I assume she shares her fear with many women from Soedan, Ethiopia and some other countries with strong family bonds and religious laws.
When governments discuss not accepting refugees and sending them back to the country they came from, the usually focus their attention on the absence of war and violence.
But in those countries there are more life-threatening situations than being in gunfights.
This mother was in tears because she was frightened that her little girls would be victims of circumcision.
Even thought it's forbidden in most countries, it's still done.
The victims have to live with a complete or partial removed clitoris and a vagina that is sown together.
It's a very painful procedure, done with a not desinfected knife, under far from hygienic circumstances.
When the wounds are healed, some women suffer from not being able to pass menstrual blood and hardly being able to go the the toilet.
Only some will undergo a surgical procedure to open up hen they are married. Most women are forced open.
Not to speak about what happens during childbirth.
No wonder there's such a high maternal mortality.
This mother was so afaird for her children, that she forgot that she might suffer herself too.
She has been to a foreign country which doesn't have strict rules about the contact between men and women.
When she comes back in her own country, she can't proof she hasn't been in a sexual relationship with a man, so there's a high chance she will be severely punished or cast out. Being left with no means of excistance.
The government wouldn't think sending our woman to country when these circumstances, these crimes would await them, but they don't mind sending back these women.
It's in the media that many asylum-seekers and fugitives won't integrate in society. The language is used as proof.
Nonsence!!
Right at the moment that these women arrive here, they belong more to our world of view than to the world of view they came from.
Not wanting circumcision for your children is taking a step back from where you are living.
Leaving a country with those customs is the strongest expression of the fact that you don't belong there.
Being able to express your worries and pain on TV means that you trust the people you address.
That's integration!
Many governments forget that after WW2 they have send many of their own inhabitants over to other countries: Africa, America, Australia.
All to make a better living, to find better housing.
Those were economical refugees.
They were accepted, integrated, and now live for years at those countries and feel they belong there.
But now those same governments won't accept that people from other countries come for the same reason to their countries.
I wish I could give that woman with her children a home. Because I feel she is one of us.
How grateful I am that my girls are not born in a society that sees that circumcision is a way to protect virginity.
But I feel ashamed about the way we treat asylumseekers and refugees.